Darling, Did you put the bins out?

This could very well be a yes/no question.   Then again…..

Already put them out? – suggest a simple, “Yes darling”.
If you must add something,  suggest “Thanks for reminding me”.  Tone is everything here.

If you haven’t put them out yet, we’re on sensitive ground.
Try one of these (in increasing order of honesty)

1. I’m just about getting to it now.
2. Getting to it.
3. I’ll get to it – …
4. We have bins?

Honesty in marriage is so very important.  It’s a good thing.  But remember, you can too much of a good thing.